Not sure any of us ever chooses to be invaded: to be attacked, to lose control like that. My conclusion is that you did not want to happen.
Similarly even if you feel invaded but do not think you have been invaded, that still does not imply you wanted to let it happen.
Sometimes resistance helps but sometimes it only makes things worse. In life we need the judgement to know when to do each. But in both cases the intention is to “to protect your shells”.
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Similarly even if you feel invaded but do not think you have been invaded, that still does not imply you wanted to let it happen.
Sometimes resistance helps but sometimes it only makes things worse. In life we need the judgement to know when to do each. But in both cases the intention is to “to protect your shells”.